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  1. Alsalam 'alaykom. Y is that Abu, we are all here brothers and sisters and if we differ in views, it shouldn't reach to point of hate, and we will never stand on the side of kafir against u, u are mistaken, if u think I hurt u some where in a post I apologize, I am a muslim, Allah taught us to love all our brothers and sisters in Islam, if we differ it should not reach to hate, may Allah Almighty forgive us all if we are mistaken. Umhabiba may Allah forgive u, u think we are evil, but u should know that da'wa is a very sinsitive subject and any matter u want to present to non muslims should be from a right approach and angle, we do not disagree with abu in jihad, nor in slavery, nor in any matter he talked about, it is only the way matters were approached, maybe we went a bit far not understanding his points, but it doesn't reach to the point that we are evil. If I misunderstood u please accept my apologies . and may Allah almighty join us all brothers and sisters under his throne on judgement day, and only then those who did not choose Islam will wish they were never born, they will wish they wither to sand. May Allah help us to serve him and to serve our relegion, throwing away all differences between each other. wa alsalam 'alaykom wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuh.
  2. Allahu Akbar , ma sha' Allah الله متم نوره ولو كره الكافرون wallah jazak Allah kheer sister Muslimah and may Allah give u the higher grades in heaven. wa alsalam 'alaykom
  3. alsalam 'alaykom http://sultan.org/ here u will find everything about islam it is wonderful. take care salam
  4. In the name of Allah Most Gracious Most Merciful. where did u read this exactly, most of his wives were old women it was only our mother Aisha who was so young when he married her i stated the reason before in a different thread. http://www.islamww.com/bb//showthread...hp?threadid=983 I don't know if u read this thread, read it and if still not convinced tell me, i will try to be more clear next time. No u are not wrong, I will not lie to please any1, it is the truth, would u rather have 14 pious clean women or commit adultry with hundreds of prostitutes which only Allah knows what kind of diseases u will catch from them. John, God created human beings, and he alone knows how he created them, some men think that one wife is not enough, men mostly are not satesfied with one woman, so should he go and commit adultry to satisfy himself , no y should he while Allah gave him the permission to marry a second wife who is clean and pious and will take care of his honour, but he should take the first wifes' permission, or he should inform her to show her that he respects her and not doing anything behind her back. But again Allah almighty asked us to be just to our wives not to treat one better than the other, if u love one more than the other is okay, u can't help it u cannot control your heart, but u must be just in spending, treating, and feeding. In the holy Quran it is mentioned in Surat Alnisa' In the Name of allah Most Gracious Most Merciful : 3. And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan_girls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (the captives and the slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice. So here u see, God knows that humans are not just, so he is ordering only one if u are not able to be just with them. and in surrat al R'ad 38. And indeed We sent Messengers before you (O Muhammad ), and made for them wives and offspring. And it was not for a Messenger to bring a sign except by Allâh's Leave. (For) each and every matter there is a Decree (from Allâh). It shows here that not only prophet Mohammad had many wives but other prophets did as well, u will ask and say y is all that, why so many wives? Here are some I recall : 1- prophets are our ideals, so if we do anything we should follow their example and if they do anything not from therselves but by order of God. In the Name of Allah the Most Gracious the Most Merciful: Indeed in the Messenger of Allâh (Muhammad ) you have a good example to follow for him who hopes in (the Meeting with) Allâh and the Last Day and remembers Allâh much. the Holy Quran, 33:21 2- When u marry more than one wife, u will have lots of children, by that the islamic nation will increase in population and if raised properly on islamic morals they will serve Allah and the relegion as requsted by Allah Almighty. 3- Being merciful with widows and divorced women who will not find any1 to take care of, and this is exactly how the prophet married his wives, he was allowed to marry 9 wives, and this is only permissable for him, the reason for that as I said he is our Ideal, and each marriage of his was to solve a problem or to show the right way of dealing with various marital situations. Then Allah also confirms that man cannot be just even if he tried: In the Name of Allah the Most Gracious the Most Merciful: 129. You will never be able to do perfect justice between wives even if it is your ardent desire, so do not incline too much to one of them (by giving her more of your time and provision) so as to leave the other hanging (i.e. neither divorced nor married). And if you do justice, and do all that is right and fear Allâh by keeping away from all that is wrong, then Allâh is Ever Oft_Forgiving, Most Merciful Here Allah Almighty shows that no matter how men try to be just to wives he will not be able to, but then again he says if u can do that and are pious and have fear of Allah in doing just then Allah will forgive u if u did unjust before. So it is up to u to marry 1 2 or 3 or 4 but u have to be just, the prophet is different as I told u , he is our example he married his wives by order of Allah, and then he was ordered not to marry other than them even if he is attached to their beauty : In the Name of Allah the Most Gracious the Most Merciful: 51. You (O Muhammad ) can postpone (the turn of) whom you will of them (your wives), and you may receive whom you will. And whomsoever you desire of those whom you have set aside (her turn temporarily), it is no sin on you (to receive her again), that is better; that they may be comforted and not grieved, and may all be pleased with what you give them. Allâh knows what is in your hearts. And Allâh is Ever All_Knowing, Most Forbearing. 52. It is not lawful for you (to marry other) women after this, nor to change them for other wives even though their beauty attracts you, except those (captives or slaves) whom your right hand possesses. And Allâh is Ever a Watcher over all things.( 33 Surat Alahzab) Well this is brief, if u wish to know more I will look it up for you. But when u read this u must know that God created humans and they are all not the same, each is different in his attitude, different in his morals and ideals, men also differ in treating women some are just others are not, some 1 wife will be enough others not, so Islam gives the solution to all this. And who should we follow in his morals, it is prophet Mohammad(pbuh), he taught us high morals, which I am sorry to say that most muslims do not posses or preach, if they did they again will be that great nation that was 1424 years ago. One more thing, prophet Mohammad, before Islam was spread, he was offered young beautiful ladies to posses and marry, he was offered wealth and monarchy by Kuffar in order to leave his da'wa, he did not accept, his Uncle Abu taleb came to him and told him that Quraysh will give him whatever he wants to stop this he said: O uncle if they put the sun in one hand and the moon in the other I will not leave it until I spread it or die for it. So if he really loved young women as u stated he would have accepted this offer, and left what he was ordered to do, but instead he refused and he bared their disbelief and torture to him and his followers until he succeeded in spreading the message of Allah. I hope I cleared some views for u here, if u still need to know more, do not hesitate to say, I will do my best to help. May Allah the Most forgiving forgive me if I am wrong. If I am right it is from God alone, if I am mistaken it is my mistake and ignorance. Peace
  5. U are welcome shereen to the forum I hope u will be happy here.
  6. You are so right, so what we need now is to show the young youth what kind of new weapons used against them, unfortunatley most won't listen seeing them to what state of morals they reached nowadays, may Allah have mercy on us and give us long lives to see the Islam torch enlighten again by its' pious young generation . Ameeeen Jazzak allah kheer.
  7. In the name of Allah most gracious most merciful . Well it is ok do not worry, I am not offensed, it is good to see u back in action :cool: , and welcome back, and I get offensed only when anything malicious is said about Allah or prophet Mohammad or any other messenger of God. Well u still have a long way to look until u discover the truth, none can force it on u Well I remember there was a post before that u mentioned these sources, I did not bring them from my head u know:D, Yes I know that u use the usc as a source u mentioned that as well. Oh john come on, no the Quran did not mention it was flat, it was europe who said that in the old ages, and lots of scientists where killed then, like galilio because he said that the earth was round. (A scholar told us about this a week ago, about galilio). Oh ok by will of Allah we will, and really I hope u see the truth, relegion is not a made up thing, or how did we exist, think a bit. He did predict a lot of things I know but it was not out of his cleverness, because it was mentioned in the old original testaments( this will take a long post to explain, maybe later) First Quran was not borrowed from any1 it is Allah's words(I know u are not convinced of that) secondly we did not deny that our late scientists took a lot from the greek scientists. It was the arabs that translated all this science and added more to it. And u know what all the sciences in the world since our father Adam up to date is not man made or from his own geniousity, it is because God created u with a very complicated brain that is more quicker and more precise than any computer in this world, and Islam induces muslims to study and look up more in God's creation, and it respects other civilisations. Anyways I think we are a bit off topic here we can discuss this in a new thread. About this, u have to c a scholar a true proffisional scholar. Not every scholar is a scholar may God help us. http://www.harunyahya.com/ I don't know if u saw this before(I put it before in an old topic), I differ with this man in a couple of issues, but they are nothing serious , but he really did a wonderful job here, read it maybe u will find something here. Have a nice day, and again nice seeing u back
  8. Bissmillah AlRahman AlRaheem How are u john, I did not know it was u habib until i read one thread i dont remember which now, and i was wondering that guy john sounds like habib, so it was u after all. Anyways let's get to the point, in all your previous threads, and posts, u keep on describing prophet Mohammad(pbuh) being dubious, and u keep saying go read about him, read about his biography, the problem we keep telling u that we read his biography we know everything about his life, and to us he is the most devine human being ever born weather u like it or not, then if u see anything doubtful about him whay don't u state it logically, and right to the point so we can answer u and as I told u before we are not scholars we do not know all but we will do what we can to help, and don't worry no one will chop your head off we are not threatning just state exactly what are your doubts about Islam and prophet Mohammad(pbuh) are and we will answer u. u keep taking bits from here and there and from anti islamic sites, as if u want to prove to us that Islam is a corrupt relegion, it is not I assure u, a book 1400 years ago not one word changed it is filled with scientific miracles, many american scientest ebraced Islam, because Quran helped them complete studies they started, how can an illiterate who was raised in a bedwin region know such scientific details, about space, the seas which he never has been to, embroyology and there are much more, but are u convinced - no- why I really don't know. But u know what I respect ur openion, u r free to beleive or not, and i see that u r sincere in wanting to know the truth. I will tell u a story I heard on tv to an egyptian woman scholar who works in usc her name is DR. Nawal Noor, she was on a tv interview, and she said she had an american student(girl) who was so qurrelsome and aggressive and saying bad words about the prophet and Islam, some students were so angry with her, but the scholar was very patient with her and answered all her questions that at the end she embraced Islam and now she is very pious and beleiving. I put this here because she sounded like u, even when the scholar was talking about her I remembered u and I said to myself: well we never know, maybe one day he will see the light and beleive that Islam is the only true relegion and that prophet Mohammad(pbuh) is truly a prophet and messenger. http://www.islampedia.com/ijaz/Html/Scient...t_All/Index.htm Here are some scientists declarations, I hope that they will help u. I trully pray to God to enlighten your heart and show u the right path. PEACE
  9. hehehe , Jazzak Allah kheer again, nooooo problem, in your meezan insha'Allah. Wasalam
  10. Jazzak Allah kheer brother Suhail for the poem, and the Quran as well , nice reciter , who is he . Wa salam
  11. as u wish brother, u know better than me in this situation, it is ur problem u suffered so I hope u get ajer for this in life and youmalqiyama. God bless u
  12. I read this thread a bit late, but insha' Allah my response will answer your questions. When Islam was in the early years, the Quran was translated by Gabriel the angel to prophet Mohammad(pbuh) who taught the early sahaba the noble Quran, the right way of reading, the meaning, and the rules muslims should abide to. The sahaba(his companions,early muslims) wrote the hadeeth, which is the translation of the Quran and rules of Islam, and those hadeeths reached to us today by the effort of very pious scholars who lived all their lives travelling from one country to another to collect them, and they were very accurate and specific in approving them, there is a science in Islam called the science of hadith, it shows u which is a false one and which is true, they use a method called Tawater(which means-recurrent- the hadith must be narrated from one companion to another until it ends up to prophet Muhammad(pbuh), and these companions must be trustworthy and known of their piety). So this is what the true muslim should follow, the sunnah of prophet Mohammad and his companions. Later after his death, there were the 4 khalifas after him, on the time of the third khalifa Othman (may Allah be pleased with him there was a big affliction that happened that ended by murdering the khalifa by the KHAWAREJ these were arrised by one man who is originaly jewish who claimed to be muslim his name was Abdullah bin Salam, they killed the khalifa and they were seperated into 3 parties each wants one as the khalifa, these khawarej are what are known nowadays as shie'ts, I will not write their beleif now and doctrine it will take such a long post, but in short they beleive that Ali(may Allah be pleased with him) who was the fourth khalifa and the cousin of prophet Muhammad should have been the first khalifa and many other things which is wrong((at the end they turned their back at him after they made a big affliction between him and our mother Aisha(may Allah be pleased with her) and another one between him and Mua'wiya(the khalifa after Ali was killed)), the hadith they use is not recurrent, the tafseer they use is so imaginary and so on, and after that there were many other doctrines that are totally not Islamic in any way, like the qadyania(9this one their leader claims to be a prophet:rolleyes:.)) , very sad for him, and ahmadiya and drooz and many others I dont recall them now, and suffism as well, in sufism at the end they reach to athiesm( may God help Us). all those who changed they changed out of their own writings, forged stories about the prophet and his companions, which can be easily recognized if u study the science of hadith. I have written here of my little knowledge trying to make it simple, may Allah accept from me. If u wish to learn more go to these sites http://www.uga.edu/islam/home.html above u will find about different doctrines I metioned, and many other sites that are trustworthy of seeing. http://www.islamic-awareness.org/ http://www.islamic-awareness.org/Hadith/ http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/ http://abujasir.tripod.com/hadith.htm I hope these will be sufficient, u will read also more about true Islam, and u will find many answers to your questions insha' Allah (by God's will). Sorry for my long post, I hope i answered your question, if u find anything that is not clear please inform me Insha'Allah I will try to make it clear . If I am right it is from Allah, if I am wrong it is my mistake and Ignorance.
  13. Yes I know that brother I know many women who are like this, these are not true Muslims, I stated that before that i would rather approve of my husband marry another woman than commit adultry. Subhan Allah they never look at the virtous side of it. But as we said and sister Jeniffer said jazzaha Allah khayr it should be for a noble reason. The example sister Jennifer put here happened truly, I saw it on tv on Iqraa chanel, 2 Jordanian couples, his wife got paralized, he loved her but what can he do he married another woman but after his wife's approval, and the second wife she was a very pious woman she accepted, she was not married before, so she took care of her husband, helped raise his children, and served his paralized wife, the husband was talking about his second wife so lovingly how she took care of his family, but still he loved the first one as much. So c here it is a really noble cause, but one should be cautiouss in choosing the second wife, or, ya Allah, u men will be in such a big trouble. . take care all. Wa alsalam 'alaykom wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuh .
  14. Alsalam 'alaykom brother Abdulsamad really like this u make me sad, u should be optimistic if I tell u to smile I told u smile because this is the moral of prophet Mohammad, u should be like him, and u r mistaken about what u wrote in the pm, I answered back hope u will be more clear?? take care and alsalam 'alaykom wa rahmat Allah.
  15. Alsalam 'alaykom abdulsamad ma sha' Allah I did not know u were not arabic until I read this topic , this is the first time I read it. I am from lebanon(لبنان). but I live in kuwait(الكويت) wa alsalam